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The Number One Guy You MUST Avoid and How to Spot Him

I often (too often) get emails from women who have been in relationships w “bad guys” (manipulators, opportunists, jerks—i.e., ”bad guys”) —or are still currently dating those “bad guys” and are confused, sad and not sure what to do next. Those types of dysfunctional relationships gobble you up so quickly—and in the blink of an eye you, ask yourself how …

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Swiping for Love is a Competitive Sport

Whether you are a guy or a girl, if you are single these days (and for a few, even if you aren’t) everyone seems to be using the dating apps. Therefore, I call it the Wild Wild West of dating. First let’s focus on the positive. I LOVE that we are so fortunate these days that we have so many …

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Single and Suffering from “PTDD”?

  I get it….you had the WORST experience….that person broke your heart into a million pieces….they really screwed you over big time!   You now believe love ISN’T meant to happen for you! You won’t EVER meet anyone again who compares to that person – they were TheOne! You’re too scared and wary to get back out there. Or you …

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Dating Mind Games

Do you find yourself dancing back and forth and doing a “they love me….they love me not” kinda thing, obsessing over that latest Instagram like, or that out-of-the-blue “Hi?” and are you constantly questioning “what is this even about?!”    And just when you think they’ve gone for good – you’ve reached a decision in your mind, that this thing, …

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Top 10 List Why Looking for Perfect Will Keep You Single Forever

Why Looking For Perfect Will Never Work! As a matchmaker I hear lots of the same “I’m looking for XYZ” lists over and over and I’m here to tell you, your list usually is so narrow and means absolutely nothing in terms of who would be right for you because you’ve missed ONE key point! You could have the “perfect” …

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How To Be a Great Lover

How to Be and Pick a Great Lover…     There is nothing worse than wasting your nakedness on a flop of a lover. Am I right??? So, how can you to tell the good lover from the bad before you hit the sheets? Well, first of all, if you are really in love, love will supersede lack of skills …

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The Love Fraud and How to Avoid the Faux-Mantics

As a single person, I know that most of you would love to be in a healthy happy committed relationship.  The good news is, this is possible! The bad news is, first you must dodge those people who are not in it for the same reasons as you. And the only way to avoid the trap of what I call …

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How To Choose a Matchmaker

If you are looking for love and want to be more proactive about the process, many people these days will hire a matchmaker. Matchmaking is the very old and time-tested art of matching: one who arranges marriages.   But these days so many matchmaking services have sprung up—it’s hard to know which company to hire.  And it’s very unfortunate that …

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Being Authentic

Being authentic and secure are the two magical ingredients to having everything in life. When people do things based on insecurity their actions and motivations are not authentic and therefore they will never attain what they truly desire. When you give money to get love and you are only giving money from an insecure place—it will ultimately repel the person …