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Are you still single?

Don’t you hate that question! Then you say, “Yes” and it’s usually followed by a suspicious look followed by the question “why?” AWKWARD! Well, how do you respond, wait..I already know…you hem and haw and then finally just give them some BS excuse just to move the conversation along to another subject…fast. So, between you and me….what is the answer? …

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6 Surprising Libido Boosters

I found this today on CNN and thought you might enjoy this news!(Health.com) — You’ve heard (and tried) it all before: down a dozen oysters, watch a marathon of sultry movies, get a couples massage. Even if these usual turn-ons work for you, sooner or later they start to feel tired — which may make you less likely to respond …

Don’t Online Date That Guy

First let me say, online dating is great for most people. However, the majority of my clients prefer to keep their dating life anonymous and private, therefore they don’t usually use online dating sites. As for me, I’m more like you. I work a lot, most of my friends are in relationships and I spend all day in front of …

God Bless Him for Trying..but…

Men, please read the following email sent to a woman (as a first email) on an online dating site. I truly feel bad for him, because he sounds like a good guy. Poor guy, he’s just saying waaaay too much, it’s all about him, it’s clear he never even read her profile and it’s obviously a “cut and paste” job …

Serendipity

Serendipity is when one finds something that one was not expecting to find. I was talking to someone recently when (surprisingly) the subject of online dating and matchmaking came up. The person said they’d been resistant to online dating because they believed in serendipity. Well, I believe serendipity comes in many forms. Just because one puts forth the effort to …

Are You Happy?

Are you happy? Do you look on the bright side of things? Are you approachable? If you want to attract a healthy positive type of love, then you need to project happiness. But, how do you do this if you’re lonely, sad or jaded? It’s as easy as making up your mind to choose being positive in your every word …

Onward and Upward

Hello out there!!! I am sorry that I haven’t posted a new blog in a very long time, but I have a very good reason. I have been working on several books. And therefore have been using my ideas and advice for the purpose of a long form self help book or a few books, in this case. I finished …

Why Are You Single?

This is a question that I have been asking people for a while now. Let’s face it, we all have our reasons. Or are they excuses? According to my married friend Karen, the ONLY reason anyone is single, is because they want to be. Hmmmm. Well, I guess if we took Karen’s theory completely literally, we could all be married …

“Women Have a Shelf Life”

It boggles my mind at how many people walk around with a false sense of reality. Unbelieveable…and sad. I had a man yesterday, tell me about how women have a “shelf life” and this was from a man who said he was 49..and had clearly had a facelift and WAY too much botox! Good God! Or how about the woman …

Love Life Tips

If you aren’t following me on Twitter, then you miss my daily love life tips. Here is a compilation of my recent tips: Your Love Life Tip of the Day Nothing you do will change anyone but you Men want to chase and hunt it’s their nature Like the one who likes you Cheaters never change, they just get better …